For many pilgrims, performing rites for their parents or grandparents is the main reason they travel to the Godavari. Here is a clear, step-by-step guide to doing it correctly, without getting rushed by the crowds.
Tarpanam is the offering of water, black sesame seeds, and rice to one's ancestors. While it is performed on Amavasya days and during Pitru Paksha throughout the year, the scriptures give Pushkaralu a special weight.
A Tarpanam performed on the banks of the Godavari during these twelve days is believed to satisfy ancestors for generations. Because of this, lakhs of people will be doing it at the same time.
Where to do it: Do not try to do this at the main bathing ghats like Kotilingala. It is too chaotic, and the priests are overwhelmed. The state has designated Gowthami Ghat as the official hub for Pitru Karma. That is where you should go.
You can buy a ready-made kit at the ghat for ₹100 to ₹300. However, if you want to prepare it yourself according to your family tradition, bring these items:
If you are performing this without a priest, follow this standard procedure. (If you hire a priest, he will guide you through the Sanskrit mantras).